lessons


This past weekend, we ministered at Family Bible Church in Martinez, GA. We found the people to be excited about the Lord’s work and endeavoring to work towards a ministry of multiplicative discipleship. The pastor has begun discipleship with the goal of making disciple-makers. More American churches would greatly benefit by taking such a strategy.

After our meeting with the church was over, Andrew, a seven-year-old boy, helped me take some of our materials to our car. After he helped me pack some other things, we sat down and talked about legos and other nifty toys. As we looked through a catalog, he talked about the different toys that he had, what he was saving up for, and what he thought Athan, our 11 month old son, might be interested in. He told me that he had saved up $7.50 to purchase some additions to his toy castle. I had a good time talking with Andrew and was impressed by the focus he seemed to have on helping others, but before I left God used this boy to completely astound me with His ability to provide.

Having packed up all our belongings, I entered the boys house a final time to say goodbye to everyone. As I walked into the living room, Andrew presented me with $6.25 (out of his total savings of $7.50). What a precious gift. The whole drive home, I considered God’s working in this boy’s heart, God’s faithful provision through unlikely sources, and my responsibility to use God’s resources faithfully.

Laurel accurately compared Andrew’s gift to the gift given by the young boy in the feeding of the 5,000. Jesus miraculously fed five thousand men with the boy’s five barley loaves and two fishes. May the Lord use this $6.25 to spiritually minister to the youth in Romania as He used the little boy’s meager offering of loaves and fishes.

Yikes! It’s been almost a month since I’ve posted on here. The busyness of the holiday season seems to have crowded out most of my blogging time. Hopefully, I’ll be able to keep everyone a bit more updated soon.

Our family is currently in Ohio. We’re privileged to be with Joshua’s family for Christmas and thrilled to have a meeting at the church he attended when in college, Cornerstone Baptist, the Sunday after Christmas.

Early in December our sending church did a children’s Christmas program in which the children presented monologue testimonies from some of Community’s current missionaries. The paragraphs below are a copy of one of the testimonies from our family. We thought that you might enjoy rejoicing with us through some of the lessons that the Lord has taught us over the last two years.

We all know that God is good, that God is in control of everything and that God answers prayer, right? If you’d asked me those questions two years ago, I definitely would have said, “Of course God is good. Of course He is in control. And of course he answers prayer.” But you know, even though I knew I would say “of course” with my head, a lot of times, my heart was actually whispered slyly in the background, “Well, maybe He’s good sometimes, maybe He’s in control, and maybe He answers prayer.” The reason I know that that’s what my heart was whispering behind the back of my head-knowledge is because my heart was really skilled at a certain activity –worry.

I worried about a lot of things and trust me deputation provides lots of fuel for a worrying mind to keep at a slow burn. I worried about not having money to pay for a trip we had to take to the Emergency Room, about places to stay as we traveled, about putting my foot in my mouth, about the insensitive things people said to me or my husband, about maybe never being able to have a child, about what would happen if our ’89 Buick broke down and died, about no one wanting to partner with us financially because of the economic downturn, about Joshua or Athan or I getting Tuberculosis when we move to Romania, and the list goes on.

You know what? In reference to a lot of the above, there wasn’t much Joshua or I could do to fix those worries and many of them actually happened. We had to cry out to God and actually believe that He was good and in control. And guess what He completely provided for our medical bill, has always been faithful in providing us with places to stay, has taught me humility over that pesky foot that wanders up to my mouth so often, has taught us to care more about what He thinks than what people do, has given us four children –2 in heaven, 1 here with us and 1 on the way, replaced our dying ’89 Buick with a 2005 Toyota Highlander, and has again and again proven Himself bigger than the economy! We haven’t yet moved to Romania and none of us have contracted TB. I hope we don’t but if we do, I know the Lord can provide all we need in sickness or in health.

Now two years after starting pre-field ministry with my husband, I can tell you confidently with my head that God is good, God is in control of everything, and God most definitely answers prayer.

For those of you who are praying regularly for us, first, once again thank you and second, please pray for our adaptation to and wisdom for interacting within the Romanian culture.

We were reminded of just how challenging understanding and adapting to a different culture is when early this week Dr. Kevin Bauder posted a summary of his recent trip to participate in a Romanian seminary’s graduation ceremony on SharperIron.

While we were delighted to learn of the work that God is doing through this seminary, some of Dr. Bauder’s statements made Joshua and I say, “Hum, that’s different from what so and so said. Which information is correct?”

For example, can it really be true that communism kept liberal theology away from Romanian Baptists when Unitarians were fleeing to and establishing Romanian parishes as far back as the 1560s? And do Romanian Baptist pastors as a whole really view non-registered churches under the auspices of a “religious associations” as “deceitful and unethical? etc.”

While the first question may possibly be more a matter of semantics and defining terms than anything else, a missionary planning to enter a foreign culture must wrestle with and pin down the second question. His integrity rests on his ability to come to the truth.

Because we are currently in sunny Florida far away from my favorite place to do research –good ol’ Mack library — our resources for attempting to synthesize the conflicting information are a bit scant. But hey, there’s always that scholarly source,  Wikipedia.

My internet searches turned up less info than I hoped for (and yes, I did look further than Wikipedia), but enough to provide me with even more questions than I had started with.  Oh, the thrill of the academic hunt!

I don’t plan to abandon my search for the truth. But it does seem that the further you delve into a foreign culture especially when you are dependent on third party interpreters who are usually English speaking Americans that you have to be able to dust away the American perspective that coats all of the “facts” they generously provide.

This is an area where we need much wisdom. Especially since our own brains are also coated with a thick layer of thirty years worth of American dust. So even as we try to brush away the cultural dust of others our own dust settles on top of the newly cleaned “facts” that we are trying to synthesize.

Oh, for the day when we understand Romanian. It will make studying and understanding at least a little less grimy.

We are excited that just this week we were able to connect with a Romanian church plant in Greenville, SC and to set up an initial meeting with Pastor Aurel Keew when we return to our base in a couple of weeks. This contact thrills us. We are hoping that Pastor Keew and the members of his congregation will help up more accurately understand questions like the above from a more direct Romanian perspective.

So as we add even more “facts” and opinions to our growing collection of Romanian cultural understanding please pray that the Lord will grant us a supernatural understanding of what is truly happening in the Romanian church and that we will be able to act on that knowlege in a biblical way that will help His church grow in a way that above all pleases Him.

On Monday, we went to a day center for people living on the street. After we met and spoke with some of the leadership, the center allowed us to help in the kitchen, in the garden, and with a game. We weren’t able to participate in the singing, as it was all in Romanian, but we rejoiced that Baron was able to share the gospel during a devotional time. Most people seized the time to nap, but at least one young guy paid close attention. Seeing this, I prayed for him during the message.

One surprising realization from our trip (my second time at this center) was that many of these young people were also there when Laurel and I visited in 2007. When talking with the staff about this, one responded, “Yes, it’s a little depressing.” It brings to mind the fact that only God can change hearts.

Please pray that God uses His truth at the center to do just that. Please pray for the ministry at Lugoj too. There aren’t many who live on the street in Lugoj, so we have no intention of starting a ministry like this. But we want to minister in ways that will keep people from getting to the point where they live on the street. Please pray that God shows us how to do that best.

ClaudiucoloringMariusYesterday I returned to an orphanage that I spent a week at in 2007. We spent our time there on Saturday playing basketball and Dutch Blitz, swimming, frogging and fishing (with hands, not poles), wrestling, walking, and talking. I also did a little singing. The last time I was there, the kids took several days to warm up to me. This time we were friends in minutes. I enjoyed spending the day with them. I’ve prayed for them countless times since 2007 and have a special place in my heart for them. Still, it surprised me how challenging it was for me to leave them.

Our time with the children was so short. My heart’s desire is to see them in families—even to have them as part of my family. While this desire is unrealistic, it is no less real or powerful. It will probably take several weeks to sort through this unfulfilled emotional bond. Why would God give me such a strong desire for something that cannot be? I need to spend time with Him about this so that my response is based on biblical thinking.

Prayer Request:
Please pray for Laurel as she returns from Florida, where she attended her grandma’s funeral. Your continued prayers for her and the rest of her family are most appreciated.

Our visit to a day center in a nearby gypsy village brought a pleasant surprise. Expecting to find a mostly empty center, we were greeted instead by sixty young, smiling faces.

At the facility:

  • One multipurpose room, one computer room, one office, and one tiny library room
  • Sixty young people (58 Roma [i.e. - gypsies], 2 ethnic Romanians)
  • One legal advisor, two social workers, and three volunteer teachers

Purpose of the facility:

  • Incorporate Roma into mainstream society
  • Prevent premature withdraw from school; encourage further education

Greatest needs:

  • More volunteer helpers
  • Additional school/activity supplies

Please pray that God would give Baron and the church wisdom to know how to reach out and minister to the needs of the young people at the center. Pray also that God would show us if and how He wants us to start a similar ministry through the church.

Visiting these works is bringing the demands of such ministries sharply into view. Pray that God clearly shows the way to proceed.

Special prayer requests for Friday:

Please pray for the final day of VBS. We are expecting over sixty children to attend. Pray specifically that

  1. the larger crowd isn’t overwhelming,
  2. that all the organizational elements would come together smoothly for the closing day’s carnival, and
  3. that the gospel would have free course in the hearts of the young people.

Thank you for praying for the arrival of the Segers and the Frieses and for our team’s visit to the crisis pregnancy center in Timișoara. The travelers made it safely to their hotel, and God gave us a very informative meeting with the leaders of the crisis center.

Here are some of the daunting realities we learned:

  • With a total population of about 22,000,000, Romania aborts about 1,000,000 children annually, making it the top provider of abortions in Europe (second in the world).
  • Out of nearly 7,000 abortive-minded mothers counseled, the crisis center has been able to dissuade about 350 from going through with the abortion.
  • Most officials prefer abortion in crisis pregnancies and are not excited about those who discourage it.

Please pray that God would give us wisdom to know if and how to proceed with a similar ministry in the future. Like many other problems in Romania, the abortion situation is overwhelming and desperately needs prayer. After I return from Romania, I will give a fuller description of what the center in Timișoara is doing and of what starting one of our own might involve.

Special note: I have now driven in Romania for the first time. Traveling in Romania is always an adventure, but this was an especially exciting experience. I hadn’t driven a stick since driving in Korea, and my refresher here in Romania entailed shuttling five children to and from VBS. The children continually urged me in Romanian to drive at unsafe velocities. I did not indulge them. The disappointed children didn’t bestow me with any awards, but at least they made it to their destination without incident.

This past week, Laurel and I enjoyed the privilege of attending Grace Church of Mentor’s National Church Planting Conference for the second time. As with last year’s conference God ministered to us through His word and through the testimonies of His powerful work in churches across America. Though we found many of the sessions to be valuable, the final session, preached by Pastor Phelps touched our hearts more than any other.

Here’s the outline I made of the sermon:

The Peril of Participation without Passion (Rev. 2:1-7)

  1. What will remain if first love falters?
    Disciplined morality, doctrinal purity, discerning ministry, but just the motions
  2. What is required for first love to be restored?
    Remember God’s blessings, repent of your coldness, return to your first love
  3. What will be the result of the restoration of first love?
    Satisfaction in communion

In the final point of the message, Phelps said, “God does not want a relationship of performance but of love.” This really struck a chord with us. Busyness for the Lord is not the same as walking with Him. This truth is a daily reality for us. Even though we are constantly busy for the Lord, it is all to easy for one day’s activities to run into the next day’s work. And then almost without warning, first-love can become a distant memory. Please pray that our passion and love for God will be the only fuel for all of our busyness.

This morning as I was reading Acts 5 I was struck by how imperative it is for missionaries to care more about what God thinks than what people think. The chapter opens up with the story of Ananias and Saphira. The story is set in the context of the church’s birth (a macrocosmic beginning for what missionaries attempt to do in microcosmic form wherever the Lord puts them.) The church’s conception and then continuing life depends on the supernatural working of the Holy Spirit. Within this context enter in Ananias, Sapphira, and Satan (see verse 3). Ananias and then Saphira in turn lie to the church leaders about giving all of the proceeds from a property sale to the church, when in fact they only gave part. The act of keeping some of the proceeds wasn’t wrong. Lying about it was.

Ananias and Sapphira probably never considered that their little lie to make themselves look good to the church was the equivalent of lying to the Holy Spirit (interestingly, equated with God in this passage.) Or that their little lie was such a serious sin that God’s judgment would mean their death sentence. Satan, a liar from the beginning, used this couple to attempt to gain a stronghold in the infant church where the Holy Spirit was leading and displaying His power not just through miracles and conversions but also through an unusual and supernatural unity among believers. Satan’s foiled attempt to sow distrust and dishonesty showed that he was no match for the power of the Holy Spirit.

Ananias and Sapphira wanted to look good, selfless. and righteous to the church. So do missionaries. Our lively-hood and economic ability to minister depends on it. But what a lesson for us. I doubt many missionaries are tempted to blatantly lie on forms or in interviews, but even a slight twisting of the truth –an attempt to tell the church what we think they want to hear not actually what’s happening, now that’s a regular temptation. But a slight twisting here and a little tweaking there can be devastating to our ministries.  If our communication is not the absolute truth, then our character is not reflecting God’s character, and we’re giving Satan a backdoor to slip through into the works God is doing through us. How foolish to undermine the Holy Spirit’s working in this way. He won’t tolerate it. We must be truthful no matter what men may think.

Recently, I received an e-mail from a very dear high school friend.  In the letter she kindly, but pointedly articulated weaknesses that she sees in the deputation process as she has seen it through our lives over the last half of a year.  Of course the letter stung a bit, but a lot of her comments we’re right on. She pointed out some errors that Joshua and I must correct, but she also pointed out some weaknesses that neither Joshua nor I can correct. They’re inherent to the deputation tradition and would require cooperation on a national level to fix.

We know that these problems that seem simple to fix to her, an unsaved market-minded Japanese woman, really are a bit more complicated due to the politics of our movement and our independent polity tradition. And we know that many a missionary, lay Christian, and pastor has yearned to correct the system because of the obvious wasted resources of time and money.  But my friend’s critical letter caused me for the first time to think that while it is tragic to waste resources,  it is much more tragic that our failure to fix these problems results in a poor testimony to the unsaved world.

Every missionary has unsaved family or friends who follow his progress on the fund raising trail and what a tragedy that our methodology may hinder our effectiveness not only to get to the place God has called us to minister in a timely and cost effective way, but also may hinder our ability to share Christ with our unsaved family and friends in an unblemished way.

As Christians, 1 Corinthians 10:31 commands us that whatever we do, we should do all to the glory of God. And 2 Peter 1:5 tells us that we are to supplement our faith with excellence. Few, if any, would call the deputation tradition an excellent way to efficiently fuel the Great Commission.

So there’s an obvious problem out there and that begs the question how do we fix it? If you have any ideas on how to improve the deputation process, please pass them along to us. We’ve met many pastors who aren’t fond of the system and who want to change it, but so far we haven’t met anyone (including ourselves) who has suggestions on how to change it. But if anyone can come up with some ideas, it seems that there are good men out there ready to break with or at least to build on and adapt tradition into something a bit more efficient and effective, and we will willingly pass on your ideas to pastors that we meet.

I am so grateful for the gift of such a genuine friend who is willing to be “iron sharpening iron.” Even though she might not admit that God used her in such a way. He did. Now can we as a Christian family get busy sharpening this system, and let God use our efforts toward excellence to turn the deputation trail into something that will reveal His excellence and glory to both the saved and unsaved world?

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